THROWBACKS BY Z: Chase the joy, not the chore

Guided back to the Guidance by Z Vault for this piece from May 2021. This is a massive theme once again in the lead up to the first eclipse of 2022. Just like last year, this post came before that eclipse season. This is another round of shedding yet another layer of our inauthenticity to leave space for the true. The themes could be different from last year or the same. Observe from your heart and go as you’re guided.

Remember that All is Well.

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We are no longer expending any more energy into that which doesn’t nourish our spirits.

Just because it once did, doesn’t mean it still needs to. You change constantly.

There is no need to “marry” anything. The only one you are committed to for life is you. And so the only one you’re accountable for serving and loving is you.

I don’t mean be selfish. But I mean, stop assigning obligations to yourself like a life sentence. You deserve a better life than that.

If it feels more like a ball and chain that a golden anklet, it’s time to cut and release.

No one says that’s easy. But trapping yourself by the choices of your past is harder.

I don’t care how damn giddy you were over those shoes at that Black Friday sale at Nordstrom Rack in 2016; or how many butterflies that person once gave you; or how hard you grinded for that promotion- if it gives you blisters, heartache, or hives, it’s not for you bro.

Resistance to surrendering to the natural life cycle of anything leads to more trauma in the end.

Save yourself and release the things you’re keeping yourself tied to, and allow them to find their next home, where they will be better appreciated.

Those shoes, those relationships, that job, that house-whatever-may be more like a chore to you now, but they are definitely the joy of someone else. Let them fly free to find where they belong.

So let’s clarify: a chore is an unpleasant task, something that is no longer in alignment with your soul’s calling. Not like a household chore. Those aren’t actually a chore per say, more so an investment in loving yourself with discipline.

A chore is nothing more than an obligation. The antonym of obligation is freedom. And freedom, like true love, is unconditional and eternal, like your soul. As is joy.

💖Z

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Originally written May 12, 2021

THROWBACKS BY Z: Have faith in better for yourself; for all

Guided to bring out another piece from the Guidance by Z Vault today. This oldie but goodie from March 23, 2019. I believe this is meant to be brought back out for someone who needs it. We are meant for more. Believe that. Have faith in better for yourself; for all.

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When we allow fear to control our actions, we hang on to “good enough” or “meh” situations. Jobs, relationships, behaviours. “Meh, it’s good enough”.

But inside our souls are screaming for more:

A more fulfilling job, one that does more than feed the family, but one that feeds the soul. One that sparks excitement every morning.

A deeper relationship. One where the communication dives into the depths. One where the mere grazing of fingertips over the skin pulses electricity through to the marrow of your bones. One that blends passion, respect, unconditional love, and genuine friendship.

So why do we stop short of reaching for that? What holds us back? What keeps us trapped in jobs and situationships that do none of those things? Why do we insist on hanging onto surface level, old paradigm, good enough? Why do we feel we owe the people and companies our loyalty to the detriment of our soul’s fulfillment?

Therein lies our blocks. Therein lies our wounds. Time to roll up the sleeves and dive in to examine it. Ask ourselves the difficult questions. Do we feel we are unworthy of our dreams coming true? Do we feel we are irrational in craving that? What have we been told that infiltrated our core beliefs? Why do we feel we owe loyalty to these things? Did we think that perhaps we weren’t even worthy of that too? Why?

So we hang on so tightly to things we don’t even really want. The surface stuff. The smoke and mirrors. The good enough. Because we are so scared to let it go. We may even go overboard inflating the magic of the less than perfect. Diving into the job or relationship completely. In the process, numbing our souls cries and losing ourselves, never satisfied.

What if we just got out of our own way? What if we just healed the stuff that kept us trapped in “meh” situations? What if we healed the martyr complex, the parts of our depths that kept us stuck to people we feel we “owe” for being there when we hated ourselves the most?

What if everything your soul truly craves is exactly what is meant for you? What if you trusted yourself and opened yourself up to that? What if you those cries from the depths were the truth? But our logical minds and fear-based choices guided you away from it all? What if we stopped lying to ourselves, let go of the smoke and mirrors, let go of the illusions, and allowed ourselves the indulgence of believing everything we truly dreamed of was not only possible, but was destined?

💖Z

Originally published March 24, 2019

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THROWBACK: If you get a choice, why do you choose to believe the worst?

I woke up this morning in a groggy state to a profound need to head to the Guidance by Z Vault to see what I had published a year ago today. ⁣

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It felt so important that I read it, not just for myself, but to share for all of you. ⁣

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I have hundreds, if not thousands of pieces I’ve written over the years, that I had taken down last year as I embarked upon a new chapter in my journey. ⁣

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But every so often, I am divinely guided to find a specific one that needs a come back. ⁣

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This one is truly significant in this way. I hope this gives you something to truly reflect on as we walk these last 48 or so hours of this astrological year. ⁣

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The Full Moon in Virgo tomorrow has us logically and cerebrally processing the last year. ⁣

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Equinox/Noruz/Navros/Persian New Year/Imbolc right after and the beginning of a whole new cycle. ⁣

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We have an opportunity to set some “resolutions” to consciously, mindfully, and with heart centred commitment to self mastery and choosing a better way forward. In mind, body and spirit. ⁣

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This is a commitment to faith, to improving the baseline vibrational frequency at which we operate. It’s another leap towards a future unlike anything we’ve ever experienced. ⁣

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This piece so perfectly written perhaps a year ahead of its time serves as a guide and a reminder of our role in what we experience. ⁣

A tale as old as time. ⁣

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Observe your thoughts and beliefs about things you can’t control. It’ll show you the shadow level of where you’re at. That’ll help lead you down the road of discovering what within you still craves your light. Then let your light and tears flow. Where there’s the fear or doubt, there is suppressed resentment and pain in need of the ointment of unconditional, unexpectant, unwavering faith that All is Well. ⁣

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Originally written and published March 17, 2021⁣

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